This past Friday as I was leaving my art group meeting, I picked up my cell phone, left a message for a friend, and hung up. Driving straight but needing to make a left turn, I noticed a median between the lanes going forward and the one for the left turn. I quickly pulled over to the left lane. Suddenly, I heard tweeting sounds and saw a flashing light in my rear view mirror. The policeman on his motorcycle noticed I had used my cell, because he was in the median and said I almost hit him. I deserved that ticket for cell phone use, because it represented how distracted my mind was at the time.
The next day I drove an hour north to meet a friend for lunch. We had an enjoyable lunch, then decided to walk through the mall. We sat down on a circular planter to visit a little while longer before heading back to our cars to leave. I could see that the traffic was already bumper to bumper on the freeway,so I figured the drive home would be slow. It was stop and go all the way home. A normal one hour drive took two. As I wearily headed to my front door, I put my hand in my purse and didn't feel my wallet. Before panicking, I looked in my car. A black wallet blends in with the floor of my car and my purse. No luck. My first thought was to call the restaurant, but glanced over to my home phone and saw that I had a call from the mall security. Security called to say that a woman that worked at a jewelry store had picked up my wallet and brought it to lost and found. Not a card or penny was missing. Sunday morning I drove up early to beat the traffic and picked up my wallet. All I could be was grateful for an honest woman, and to God, especially for taking care of me. Now I have a typed list of every card in my wallet and numbers to call if they are lost or stolen.
The message from last weekend was, stay focused in the moment, not thinking about the future or the past. Writing down all those thoughts traveling through my head, getting earphones that fit or a bluetooth, and buying a bright red wallet will help too.
Nancy sounds like you know exactly what to do. Enjoy your red wallet. Take care of yourself your whole self
ReplyDeleteThank you, Karen! What a weekend! It's humbling, yet very good for me. I forgot to add that it would help to zip my purse instead of letting it hang open : ) xoxo
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ReplyDeleteSo true but sometimes so difficult to do. Your post is a great reminder. I think learning to truly be "in the moment" is one of the greatest skills we can learn.
Yes, Amy, I agree. I have to remind myself of that constantly. Thank you for your message!
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When I have that type of day, or couple of days, things just seem to pile on making everything feel more overwhelming. I love that, rather than feeling overwhelmed, you made a new plan: list of cards and a sassy red wallet! Great job!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Mo! I've had a lot of practice : )
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Nancy, I love how you take responsibility for your distractedness and actions and seem to calmly learn and move forward.
ReplyDeleteMany years ago, I left my wallet in a post office. When I went back, a kind person had handed it in to the staff, and they held it for me. Like in your story, nothing in it had been touched. There's something moving about that, don't you think? People are kind.
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Alice, thank you for sharing your wallet story, and for your always affirming comments! Yes, people are kind. A number of years ago though, I lost another black wallet on a plane. Since I had saved my cash from the trip, my wallet was full. I have only hoped that whoever found that black wallet loaded with cash really needed the money : ) I need to start liking bright red or fushia wallets from now on : )
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